Male vs Female mating drives
What type of situations do men look for related to long-term relationships with women?
1. Male who doesn’t understand women and marries the first one he can get.
2. Male who understands women and picks one he feels very strongly toward
3. Male who commits due to wanting to do the right thing or be a father for his children
Anything else is not likely related to evolutionary behavior and his understanding (or lack) of it.
2 is the only highly recommended healthy relationship to go into, although the 3rd one can be.
Men are bred (by evolution) to be able to have children with as many women as possible. And part of all mating behavior is controlled by that regardless of his wanting children or not.
Women have a similar feeling towards men about sex but completely different towards having children. Any man has a chance with any woman if he merely acts attractively. Sure some women will be otherwise committed, but he still has a chance if something were to change. When I say ‘acts attractively’ I do not mean he is putting on an act, rather that he changed the way he acts based on understanding himself and what is attractive to women.
But to catch and keep a good woman is a bit more complex.
Do you understand enough about what women really want?